If you think along the lines of “I’ve always been this way”, “I wish others would change so I could be happy”, “All my time and money goes to others” or “There is nothing I can do”, you have been giving too much of your own power away.
I have studied personal power all of my life yet never truly understood it until the day I said “NO” to chemo and started saying “YES” to a different life. I had a choice to make: Did I want to continue thinking the way I did and create dissatisfaction, dis-ease, negative relationships, jobs with no passion and a life very different than the one I truly wanted?
You choose whether you are the master of your thinking or the servant to it. If your dominant thoughts are of what you do not want, your life experience will deliver much of the same – your do not wants. The question becomes are you happy with what is showing up in your life today or is it time to finally change it?
If you are really ready to make changes and haven’t been successful before or don’t know where to start, it’s time to consider the benefits of coaching. Coaching was the one solution that completely changed my thinking (even when I was heavily triggered by a deadly cancer diagnosis) – In more ways than one coaching saved my life.
It took a lifetime to get where you are today. But there does come a time when your need to change becomes BIGGER than your need to stay where you are. You will feel strong resistance to change but you will learn to soothe what holds you back and keep moving forward. If you are just awakening to your deep need for life change, pay attention to it. That urge will not go away. It is your true life calling. Nothing changes unless you do.
Start where you are. Things are about to be different.
Where Thought is Life Changing
As a perfectionist and worrier, cancer rocked my world completely! I was a nurse and knew that the negative thinking, anxiety and worry about the future were affecting me everyday. They were making my life much harder than it needed to be.After working with Lisa, I learned that I was in control of my experience in all areas of my life. I needed to change my way of thinking, to pay attention to my feelings and to take deliberate steps to get to a life I really wanted. That felt so powerful!Today, I feel the best I have in my life and am excited for what is to come! This would not have happened without Lisa’s insight, the accountability and encouragement she gave me as a coach and the critical life tools I was never taught. I am now in a happy place – a life finally defined by me.Thank you Lisa!